You know the results--she is now twenty-five but is suffering from it to
this day. You, her mother, over fastidious, _so very nice_ you would never
mention "_such silly trash_," but by your consummate foolishness and mock
modesty you have ruined your daughter's health, and though in later years
she may forgive you, yet she can never love and respect you as she ought.

10. "KNOWLEDGE THE PRESERVER OF PURITY."--Laura E. Scammon, writing on this
subject, in the _Arena_ of November, 1893, says: "When questions arise that
can not be answered by observation, reply to each as simply and directly as
you answer questions upon other subjects, giving scientific names and
facts, and such explanations as are suited to the comprehension of the
child. Treat nature and her laws always with serious, respectful attention.
Treat the holy mysteries of parenthood reverently, never losing sight of
the great law upon which are founded all others--the law of love. Say it
and sing it, play it and pray it into the soul of your child, that _love is
lord of all_."

11. CONCLUSION OF THE WHOLE MATTER.--Observation and common sense should
teach every parent that lack of knowledge on these subjects and proper
counsel and advice in later years is the main cause of so many charming
girls being seduced and led astray, and so many bright promising boys
wrecked by _self-abuse_ or _social impurity_. Make your children your
confidants early in life, especially in these things, have frequent talks
with them on nature, and you will never, other things being equal, mourn
over a ruined daughter or a wreckless, debased son.

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Exciting the Passions in Children.

1. CONVERSATION BEFORE CHILDREN.--The conduct and conversation of adults
before children and youth, how often have I blushed with shame, and kindled
with indignation at the conversation of parents, and especially of mothers,
to their children: "John, go and kiss Harriet, for she is your
sweet-heart." Well may shame make him hesitate and hang his head. "Why,
John, I did not think you so great a coward. Afraid of the girls, are you?
That will never do. Come, go along, and hug and kiss her. There, that's a
man. I guess you will love the girls yet." Continually is he teased about
the girls and being in love, till he really selects a sweet-heart.

2. THE LOSS OF MAIDEN PURITY AND NATURAL DELICACY.--I will not lift the
veil, nor expose the conduct of child