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most amiable features of _good_ republican society is this; that men seldom boast of their riches, or disguise their poverty, but speak of both, as of any other matters that are proper for conversation. No man shuns another because he is poor; no man is preferred to another because he is rich. In hundreds and hundreds of instances have men in this country, not worth a shilling, been chosen by the people to take care of their rights and interests, in preference to men who ride in their carriages. The shame of being thought poor leads to everlasting efforts to _disguise_ one's poverty. The carriage--the domestics--the wine--the spirits--the decanters--the glass;--all the table apparatus, the horses, the dresses, the dinners, and the parties, must be kept up; not so much because he or she who keeps or gives them has any pleasure arising therefrom, as because not to keep and give them, would give rise to a suspicion of _a want of means_. And thus thousands upon thousands are yearly brought into a state of real poverty, merely by their great anxiety not to be thought poor. Look around you carefully, and see if this is not so. In how many instances have you seen amiable and industrious families brought to ruin by nothing else but the fear they _should_ be? Resolve, then, from the first, to set this false shame at defiance. When you have done that, effectually, you have laid the corner-stone of mental tranquillity. There are thousands of families at this very moment, struggling to keep up appearances. They feel that it makes them miserable; but you can no more induce them to change their course, than you can put a stop to the miser's laying up gold. Farmers accommodate themselves to their condition more easily than merchants, mechanics, and professional men. They live at a greater distance from their neighbors; they can change their style of living without being perceived; they can put away the decanter, change the china for something plain, and the world is none the wiser for it. But the mechanic, the doctor, the attorney, and the trader cannot make the change so quietly and unseen. Stimulating drink, which is a sort of criterion of the scale of living,--(or scale to the plan,)--a sort of key to the tune;--this is the thing to banish first of all, because all the rest follow; and in a short time, come down to their proper level. Am I asked, what is a glass of wine? I answer, _it is every thing_. It creates a dem
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