days are a long waiting for maturity, and with
maturity the fulfilment of her dreams, of love, of marriage, of
motherhood. She haunts the movies because she finds there vicarious
romance and vicarious adventure. The great out-doors is hers to play
in--on the screen.
And at the same time, with no increased outlet for her activities, her
imagination is being stimulated as never before. Books, magazines,
automobiles, moving pictures, all are revealing to her this strange
thing we call life, which is hers to observe but not yet to live. She is
a yearning onlooker.
It is time to realize that hundreds of thousands of young girls in this
country--doubly important now that they are future citizens as well as
the potential mothers of future citizens--must be given occupation, a
feeling of responsibility, a practical ideal to which they may bring
their innate loyalty and enthusiasm. They need organized play and
athletics. They need something concrete to tie to. They need to be
taught, if you please, what is the "gang" spirit among boys. They need
to learn that their young bodies are to be used, instead of decorated.
Until they learn that, we shall have sickly mothers and puny babies. No
single movement for the improvement of American people as a race, no
advance of science or sanitation, can compare in importance with the
necessity for building up morally, spiritually and bodily, our future
mothers.
They need to be taught certain loyalties, sex loyalty. Loyalty to
ideals. Loyalty to country. This last, loyalty to country, has to be
taught. When a man learns to take off his hat to the flag, he has a new
respect for it.
Some of our girls need to be taught honesty. They cover their dreams
with small deceits. They seek romance out of sheer boredom, and are
driven into hypocrisy. The boy has fewer dreams to conceal, and he is
honest with the honesty of fresh air and the great out-doors. When we
give our girls occupation, when we get them out of doors, when we give
them organized play in the open, there will be fewer morbid women.
Give them something to do that interests them. Get them out into the
air. Fill in the waiting years with work and play. Give them some rules
of life which will appeal alike to their imaginations and to their
instinctive desire for something better. Let them look out as well as
up.
Nearest of all the proposed plans to cope with what an increasing number
of families are finding to be their proble
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