provision for sexual partnerships outside of permanent
marriage is that no deliberate change made in this direction can
conceivably make the moral conditions of our society, in the future,
worse than they have been in the recent past. As a matter of fact,
every form of irregular union has existed and does exist to-day, but
shamefully and hidden. It is certain that they will continue and that
their numbers will not lessen, but increase.
The only logical objection that I can think of being advanced against an
honorable recognition of these partnerships is that, by doing away with
all necessity for concealments, their number is likely to be much larger
than if the old penalties were maintained. I doubt if this would happen,
but, even if it were so, and more of these partnerships were entered
into; it is also true that recognition is the only possible way in which
such union can cease to be shameful. We have, then, to choose whether we
will accept recognition and regulations, unless, indeed, we prefer the
continuance and increase of unregulated secret vice.
There is no other choice, at least I can find none; no other way except
to establish responsibility in all our sexual relationships. Secret
relationships must be contraband in the new order.
FOOTNOTES:
[193:1] Some parts of this essay appeared, in 1913, in the _English
Review_. The article created some interest at that time, especially in
America, where it was published (with two other articles from the
_English Review_) in a little book, "Women and Morality." My opinions
have changed little since I wrote it. In my last book, "Motherhood and
the Relationships of the Sexes," I again treat the subject in a chapter
entitled _Sexual Relationships outside of Marriage_. I am now
strengthened in my certainty that responsibility must be fixed and
regulated in all sexual relationships if moral health is to be restored.
[200:1] A clever novel, "Three Women," by Miss Netta Syrett, gives an
illuminating picture of modern womanhood.
[208:1] See I. Bloch, "Sexual History of our Times," pp. 320-322.
CONCLUSION
WITHOUT VISION
"Where there is no vision, the people perish."--Pro. xxix. 18.
I began this book on Armistice day, and am ending it on Peace day. This
period of about eight months has been a time of great disillusionment.
Even those little inclined to be deceived by the customary exaggerations
of politicians, and little disposed to believe in su
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