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each other, and mutual love enough to deserve, as they hope, to meet again hereafter. I assure you I have sometimes come away from houses unvisited, and unlikely to be visited by death, with a heart so heavy as I have rarely or never brought from a deathbed." "I should have thought that would be left for the rector to say," observed Hester. "I should have supposed you meant cases of guilt or remorse." "Cases of guilt or remorse," continued Mr Hope, "and also of infirmity. People may say what they will, but I am persuaded that there is immeasurably more suffering endured, both in paroxysms and for a continuance, from infirmity, tendency to a particular fault, or the privation of a sense, than from the loss of any friend upon earth, except the very nearest and dearest; and even that case is no exception, when there is the faith of meeting again, which almost every mourner has, so natural and welcome as it is." "Do you tell your infirm friends the high opinion you have of their sufferings?" asked Margaret. "Why, not exactly; that would not be the kindest thing to do, would it? What they want is, to have their trouble lightened to them, not made the worst of;--lightened, not by using any deceit, of course, but by simply treating their case as a matter of fact." "Then surely you should make light of the case of the dying too: make light of it even to the survivors. Do you do this?" "In one sense I do; in another sense no one can do it. Not regarding death as a misfortune, I cannot affect to consider it so. Regarding the change of existence as a very serious one, I cannot, of course, make light of it." "That way of looking at it regards only the dying person; you have not said how you speak of it to survivors." "As I speak of it to you now, or to myself when I see any one die; with the added consideration of what the survivors are about to lose. That is a large consideration certainly; but should not one give them credit for viewing death as it is, and for being willing to bear their own loss cheerfully, as they would desire to bear any other kind of loss? especially if, as they say, they believe it to be only for a time." "This as looking on the bright side," observed Hester, in a low voice; but she was overheard by Mr Hope. "I trust you do not object to the bright side of things," said he, smiling, "as long as there is so much about us that is really very dark?" "What can religion be for," sai
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